More than a few times Adam and I have had the discussion that goes something along the lines of how we should make more of an effort to invite other people over for Sunday dinner. I've got a list, and I've got good intentions, but then no phone calls are ever made or roast ever planned. So here's my invitation to all those intended invites to go ahead and call me a big lazy-head. But when push comes to shove, I really like my Sunday afternoon nap, a day off of thinking too much about dinner, and the slow-afternoon time where we can just kick-it as a family.
Actually, I'm having a hard time thinking that I want to trade in on the kind of peaceful day we had yesterday for an afternoon of my barking orders at the kids and Adam just to get some elaborate dinner planned and the toys picked up off of the floor and random papers on the counter shoved into a drawer before anyone shows up.
Instead the kids turned cardboard boxes into various types of vehicles (air, land, sea) with Saul even getting pushed around the room in a smart little roadster. And Olivia spent plenty of time dressing up with whatever assortment of blankets, scarves, and skirts were available. (And then she spent plenty of time dancing to her request for the the Sound of Music soundtrack.)
We polished off the leftover cupcakes I had made for Saturday's swim meet (stop....it wasn't the only thing we had for dinner!). Isabel, who only licked off all of the frosting (they are made with whole wheat flour and zucchini afterall), handed hers back and said, "I all done with my cupcake," and then in the same breath, "Please I have another?"
And I'm not even going to apologize like Adam's working on building a wheel for his winter bike wasn't an appropriate Sabbath activity. It was probably more of a family activity than was my sitting at the computer working on photos and helping Max with his blog posts (oh, and cuing up a new soundtrack from some classic musical theater for Olivia).
But, yes, Max has his own blog now, and it's pretty darn adorable (and hysterical) if you ask me. He'd been begging us for a while, so one weeked while I was out of town, he and Adam set it up together. And the creative license has been him completely--right down to the blog's title. I only have to assist with how to upload the pictures, but even that he's hardly needing me for anymore. And he's got his routine down as everytime a picture was uploading he would say, "Can I dance while I wait?" Then there would be 30 seconds of jumping off the arms of the couch and running around the room with Olivia. (And one more groan from me about thinking that I might as well never plan on buying a new sofa since it would only be destroyed within the first year by the circus troupe that always mistakes it for some important piece of equipment.)
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We made the blog private just to remove some of the worry about him posting what he likes. So far we've sent out invites to basically just his aunts and uncles, but if there's anyone out there who wants to see the inner-workings of Max's mind, as well as a few choice facts about his favorite animal, then send me an email and I'll send you an invite. If anything, he's been way more prolific than I've been lately so you can at least see some of what we've been doing these days. (p.s. He loooves comments.)
So maybe next year I'll reevaluate if we can muster up any sort of energy for dinner guests. Until then, I'm enjoying the life with a lazy Sunday.
7 comments:
Should I take this as an announcement that you also DISlike invites to Sunday dinner at other people's houses? Message received. =)
I am with you. Sundays are for chillaxing with the fam. I have to host the big family Sunday dinner every third month. That I can handle.
As for Max and blogging, I will be sure to drop by and leave a comment or two (you know me). I hope my post was kid appropriate today. After I read his comment I had to go do a double take. He is darn cute.
I am with you on keeping Sunday a quiet event. I like pajamas. But I love going over to my inlaws. I could wear my pjs there if I wanted to.
We go through this EXACT thing and have for years--"We should have people over on Sunday," but when it comes to it, we're just too tired. Maybe I need to start aiming for Friday. Not that I'm not usually tired on Friday . . .
I love the lazy days of Sunday. It's fun to hang out at Grandma's and let the kids run wild with their cousins, but it's also great to just sit at home and do, well, nothing.
And I would love an invite to Max's blog.
I agree with you, there is no way to replicate an easy, stay at home, do-nothing-but- be-with-family, kind of Sunday. It's those memories, and posts like this, that stick around.
Guess what? Most people (or maybe it is just me) don't want to be invited to Sunday dinner anyway! They don't want to change out of their sweats, comb their hair, and try to get rid of the sleep lines on their cheeks after their naps. They just want to have waffles and hot cocoa for dinner with people who already love them. So don't feel too bad, Jennette! I think that for most of us, it's really the only day that we are home and our kids have those sacred hours it takes to build not only elaborate lego lands, but strong relationships!
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